The Big O

While my mind is on vacation, I hope you enjoy this blog post from the past.

Can you name the one thing that all public performances seem to share nowadays? Think back to that show you sawbowing children on Broadway, the amateur production at your local community theater, your child’s performance in a school musical, a concert at the college. Give up? Hint: what happens when the performers take their bow? YES! It is! A Standing Ovation!

standingovationThe Big O (as I refer to it) has become ubiquitous. Doesn’t matter if the leading star flubbed his lines, if the child in the chorus was seen picking his nose or one of the violinists was out of tune. Doesn’t even matter much whether the performance was top-grade or not. Every audience gets to show their “appreciation” by standing up and applauding. It’s part of the “audience participation” rite of those in attendance. Once upon a time, this kind of action was reserved for the crème de la crème: the extraordinary dialogue in a Tennessee Williams play, the witty humor of Neil Simon, the grandiose aria in a Puccini opera, the exceptional acting of the leading man. Not any more. The Big O is now given to the meek, the mediocre and the many.

And why should I care? For one, it blocks my view of the performers, whom I very much like to see. It’s not unlike reading the credits at the end of a film. I get pleasure from the joyful camaraderie at the end of the show and their smiles radiating into the audience. Sometimes, they even favor us with a reprise, for which the audience remains standing and from FigaroBowswhich those of us brave enough to keep our seats are blocked from viewing!

A second reason I care is that because of the above, I am often forced to join everyone in participating in the Big O. This backs me into making a stronger statement than I intended. After all, oughtn’t there be some criteria for the Standing Ovation? Do we simply bestow it upon every public performance – the good, the bad and the ugly? Can’t we bring back a tad of honesty to the theater….in the form of a critical and discerning eye?

applauding handsUntil that happens, I will (try to) applaud while in my seat when appropriate, and stand when the production warrants it. And if the rest of the audience insists on giving the Big O to everything that happens on stage, I guess I’ll just have to get used to it.

Marilyn Ferdinand (editor of blog “Ferdy on Films”): If you give performers a standing ovation just for getting through a performance, you’re just encouraging them not to be the best that they can be. They won’t feel truly complimented, and they won’t respect your opinion because you obviously have no powers of discernment—unless, of course, they wish to believe that everything they do is extraordinary.


  1. Lewis Baden

    Nice, I enjoy the reference to seeing the movie credits. Insightful.

  2. madeline

    As others are giving a standing ovation you have theoption of standing and leaving. M

    • How true….and getting out of the theater quickly! I still object to it being standard procedure, rather than something bestowed upon excellence; and I do like to applaud while being able to see the performers.

  3. I agree with you and have very grudgingly stood up on numerous occasions, just so I wouldn’t have someone’s butt in my face. This is what has happened with tipping as well. What used to be given voluntarily as appreciation for great customer service is often expected, even when you would be tipping someone (like in a coffee shop) for standing there and taking your money at the register. Be strong and exercise your thanks commensurate with the service or performance. And maybe we can eliminate participation certificates and trophies as well… much to change, so little time….

    • Ah, yes, right on, Michelle! Love those “Tips” jars at the ice cream shop! The whole philosophy of treating the mediocre as you would the exceptional is part and parcel of our “great job, kid!” cry at a game where your darling child just fumbled the ball and cost the team the win. Everything nowadays gets a Standing O.

  4. I could not agree with you more! Great post!

    • Thanks! Your praise is appreciated.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s


The Cricket Pages


Where Westport meets the world

Seeking Delphi™

The Future Lives Here

Linda Vernon Humor

Stylistically Abusing Language for the Betterment of Mankind

Terribly Write

Terrible Writing on the Web. And Writing Terribly Well for the Web

(A)Musings by Arlene

Interesting Thoughts to Ponder........

Mostly Bright Ideas

Some of these thoughts may make sense. But don't count on it.

The Millennium Conjectures™

A Blog of the Ridiculous and Sublime, by Mark Sackler

%d bloggers like this: